For couples · iPhone · Private by design
Stop repeating
the same fight.
The app you open mid-argument. Calm the moment, find words your partner can actually hear, and end with one clear next step — instead of the same fight, again, next week.
7 days free · No accounts · Nothing you write leaves your phone
Sound familiar?
The same fight in different clothes
It starts about dishes. It's never about dishes. Somehow you both know exactly how it ends — because it ended that way last month too.
The message you can't unsend
Written at peak anger, sent in two seconds, remembered for years. The feeling was real — the wording did the damage.
The cold 48 hours
Nobody apologizes. It just goes quiet until it blows over. Nothing gets solved — it gets postponed until the next round.
None of this means something is wrong with you two. It means the fight has a pattern — and patterns can be interrupted.
Lasting couples don't fight less.
They repair faster. UnFight makes the repair the easy part.
Built for the middle of it
Most relationship apps are for calm Sunday evenings. UnFight is for 9:47pm on a Tuesday, when it's already going badly.
Get out of the spiral
A 60-second guided breather lowers the temperature before you say the thing you can't take back.
Find what's actually underneath
Guided prompts move you from "they never listen" to the feeling and need driving it — the part worth saying.
Say it so they can hear it
Your Reset Card scripts the calm version — in your tone — ready to say or send.
One clear next step
Every reset ends with one small agreement you can actually keep — not a vague promise to "communicate better."
The RESET method
Five steps, built into every flow in the app. Simple enough to use mid-argument.
Regulate
Pause and lower the emotional temperature.
Explain
Name what happened in neutral, specific language.
State the real need
Surface the feeling and need beneath the reaction.
Establish one next step
One clear request, agreement, or follow-up.
Track whether it worked
Check back later: better, same, or worse.
Everything a hard moment needs
Calm Down
Guided breathing for the first 3 minutes after a blow-up. Free forever, no limits.
Quick Reset
Under 60 seconds from "that was bad" to a clear, calm next step.
Say It Better
Turn what you almost sent into words they can actually hear — built entirely on your phone.
Same Loop detection
See when a fight resembles ones you've reported before — and what's usually underneath it.
Weekly Reset
A 10-minute ritual that catches next week's argument before it happens.
Partner Session
Pass one phone back and forth. Answer privately, reveal together, agree on one thing.
Good moments jar
Save appreciations and wins — then read a few out loud on a hard day.
Small things
One tiny daily action that keeps repair going between sessions.
Built for things you'd never type into a cloud.
What you write in a fight is raw. That's why UnFight has no accounts, no cloud, no analytics, and no ads. Everything stays on-device — the single network connection the app makes is to process purchases. Lock it with Face ID. Export or delete everything, any time.
One purchase covers both of you
For context: a single hour of couples counseling typically costs more than a full year of Premium.
Free
$0
- Unlimited Calm Down — always
- One full session every week
- Message builder with core styles
- Private writing & good-moments jar
- Face ID lock, export & delete
Premium
Three ways to get the same Premium — pick your plan inside the app.
7 days free, then about $1.54/week — best value
Flexible — cancel anytime
One payment — yours forever
- Unlimited sessions — never wait for Monday
- Same Loop pattern engine
- Personalized weekly plan
- Full scripts & wording library
- Track which repairs actually work
All plans unlock the same Premium and are purchased in the app — one purchase covers both of you. Prices in CAD; the App Store shows your local price. Cancel anytime in Settings.
Questions, answered
Isn't it weird to use an app for this?
Pilots use checklists precisely because the stakes are high and emotions run hot. UnFight is that checklist for hard conversations — a structure you follow when you're too flooded to improvise. Nothing about wanting to fight better is weird.
Is this couples therapy?
No. UnFight is a self-guided tool built on structured repair methods. It is not therapy, counseling, or medical care — and it says so clearly inside the app. Many people use it alongside counseling.
Where does our data go?
Nowhere. Everything you write stays on the phone it was written on. There are no accounts, no cloud sync, no analytics, and no ads. The only network connection the app makes is to process purchases.
Do both of us need the app?
No. UnFight is designed to work from one phone. One purchase covers both of you — Partner Sessions pass a single phone back and forth.
What if my partner isn't on board?
You can use every tool solo. Calming yourself down, finding better words, and following up on agreements changes the dynamic even when only one person is doing it deliberately. Partner Sessions are there whenever they're ready.
What's free and what's Premium?
Free includes every tool: unlimited Calm Down, plus one full session each week. Premium removes the weekly limit and unlocks the pattern engine, the scripts library, and the personalized weekly plan.
What if my situation involves safety, not disagreements?
UnFight watches for signs that something is about safety rather than conflict, pauses the flow, and points to real support resources. It never logs or stores what triggered that. See our Safety page.
Can I get my data out — or erase it?
Both, any time, in Settings. Export produces a readable file; delete removes everything permanently. Nothing is recoverable afterwards, because we never had a copy.
The next hard moment is coming either way.
You can meet it the way it always goes — or with a calm plan on the phone already in your hand. That's the whole difference.
7 days free when it launches · One purchase covers both of you
Some situations are about safety, not disagreements. UnFight is built to recognize the difference — and to step aside for real support when it matters.
Safety resources