Safety Resources
Disagreement is not the same as being unsafe
UnFight is for ordinary difficult conversations. Some situations are about fear, threats, control, intimidation, stalking, isolation, financial control, or physical or sexual harm. Communication techniques and joint exercises aren't the right tool for those, and nobody should be asked to compromise with abuse.
In the app, choosing "I don't feel safe continuing" — or writing something that suggests a safety concern — stops the ordinary flow and shows these resources. That choice is not stored, and it never triggers a notification or marketing message. UnFight does not diagnose abuse or score risk.
Support lines
United States
National Domestic Violence Hotline
United States
StrongHearts Native Helpline
844-762-8483 · for Native Americans and Alaska Natives
United States
National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline
866-331-9474
United States
The Deaf Hotline
Video phone: 855-812-1001
Canada
Government of Canada — family violence help
These are independent services, not affiliated with UnFight. Details last checked September 2026.
Digital safety
UnFight stores what you write on your phone. That means anyone who can unlock the phone may be able to open the app, and the app's data can be included in iCloud or computer backups. Face ID lock and hidden app-switcher previews help, but they can't make an app invisible on a shared or monitored device.
If your device may be monitored, consider using a safer device — a friend's phone or a public computer — to contact the services above. Browser history and call logs may show that you visited a site or called a number. You can delete all UnFight data in Settings at any time.