Free tool
Free communication tool
The short answer
Pick what you want to say, answer one to three short questions, and get an editable draft in a Brief, Gentle, or Direct style. It runs entirely in your browser — nothing you type is saved or sent.
1 · Choose a starting point
Step away without it sounding like you're walking out.
You don't have to promise a return time.
2 · A few short answers
3 · Your draft
Private by design: your answers never leave this browser tab and aren't saved — closing the page erases them. Copied text stays on your clipboard until you copy something else. This is a starting point; change anything that doesn't sound like you.
The iPhone app adds 9 situations, saved messages, and a guided way to decide what happens next.
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Templates are original and written to keep your meaning — they won't soften a boundary into a vague request or add an apology you didn't write. Every draft is a starting point: edit anything.
Common questions
Is the free communication tool really private?
Yes. It runs locally in your browser tab. Nothing is sent to a server or stored. Closing the page erases your answers.
Do I need an account?
No account, no email, no payment.
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Find a clearer next step.
UnFight for iPhone: a free Calm Down and break timer, Say It Right, and a guided RESET that ends in a next step you choose. Private, on your phone.
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